Many times I write about the relationship Elise A. Cavasin and I have and how that is "honored" each and every day. We both love each other and have been building this relationship every day since 1972.
The Bible says that "Love never fails" and so it has been here.
But what most of you don't realize is that aside from our son Jerry there really is seldom anyone else here with us.
Our family (sons and daughters, spouses) visits when they get the time, and some do so sacrificially, but in the course of the year it's a very small number of days overall.
Of course their leaving (for work and just general life) is a great loss, but leave they must just as it is when we visit them.
Here is the point:
Most of the time we are just here ourselves. Most of our time is spent with just Elise and I at the table, in the yard, doing the chores, eating great meals and meats. 24/7. If we weren't so Unconditionally in Love with each other there might be an irritation being in that situation day after day. But not so with us. I wake up in the morning with a smile waiting for her to wake up and look over at me so I can smile and wave at her. I get up, meet her in the kitchen asking what she wants for breakfast! She asks what my plans are. We sip coffee, chat, eat, then head off to our prospective chores. We always either work together or meet up for a snack, wine, and as always, unending conversation. We both realize that what we have is just each other the majority of the time. Problem.........No way! We have each other and with that in place through Love we complete each other.
God, from the first time we met, marinaded us in Love so that by the time we arrived at this time in our lives we could live,share, and appreciate these times.
How many can honestly say that?
I don't have to leave her for some activity that sets us apart "for a break", or she doesn't have to "go out" shopping or on her own to "have her space" for a while. We are completely happy just being together, all the time. I have many times ended a note or post to her like this: "I Love you always, and all ways", that covers it all. "All ways", every way that Love can be expressed, thought, word and deed, and "always", forever throughout this creation in time.
This statement covers every intimate action (anything that has to do with life together), without breaks, space, other separate interests, absolutely the need for any separation is eliminated by Love, joy, and peace with each other.
I guess I mean a "God Love" for each other that enforces respect, honoring, caring, proving to each other the preciousness we have for each other.
Because God taught us about Love (by/through Jesus Christ), forgiveness (by God through Jesus Christ), and hope (through Jesus Christ) we can "co-habitate" without interruption of time with each other.
Life is good.
Love is better.
Life with Love is best.
Love
J&E in Tn