The faster you get them done the more future you will have to do other things.
Hey lets realize the truth here.........
You do enough of them and she will sooner or later run out.
Right?
I don't know about you but I always like a challenge. When I don't put off doing the things we can get done when I can, Elise A. Cavasin is all to happy to help, making the sense of accomplishment that much more enjoyable.
Remember that "two shall become one?" It works. A task done by two is twice as easy!
I think that many times we men work harder getting out of work than if we would of just done the job.
Over the last several months we have accomplished many things together to "take off the list." Not only was it fun but it was a great relationship building act.
Feels like it's part of growing up to me.
More like "being intimate."
Real intimacy isn't limited to a physical relationship, its the process of "two becoming one" in every sphere and application of life. It includes but not limited to: Love, conversation, concerns, needs, expectations, laughing, crying, caring, sharing, satisfying, responsibility's, "touching, hugging, kissing", (oops I think I already said that this wasn't the only part), again "becoming one."
"Real Men" make their wives experience their "priceless value" by making their dreams come true not just in the big things but in the little, seemingly meaningless (to us) things.
Hang that dang picture for her!
Fix the faucet like it was your boat, truck, or chainsaw.
Then when that is caught up take time to:
Look into her eyes.........I mean really look.
Sigh when you do that like she is the most precious gift God has given you (after Jesus Christ.)
While doing that whisper "I love you!"
Remember when you were "dating?"
Remember how her hair felt in your hands?
How it was so fragrant it drove you crazy?
News flash: "same hair, same woman." Times don't change anything. Time is just an excuse to not make the same effort because you "got what you want now."
I guarantee "taking the time" now will mean just as much today as it did "back then."
A pat on the butt, brushing by, tender, appreciative words and actions will go far in "crossing some tasks" off of your "to do list!"
If you can't learn something new about your wife just about every day, then your just not "becoming one" on all levels of this great experience called marriage.
We men all think that being men means doing some great, dangerous, expensive, unreachable thing. Like somehow our greatness will be "magnified" by our "outward deeds."
The greatest accomplishment any married man can have is to have his: smiling, admiring, content, loved wife holding onto his arm, proud of the "I do" she made years ago.
Life is lived one decision at a time:
Start with the one to Love Unconditionally!
Living haply and lovingly with my wife in Tn
J&E
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