Thoughts on Man, Woman and Unconditional Love

Anne Graham Lutz, Greetings in Jesus name, I agree with your premise and explanation but feel one area needs to be represented that it missed. The point that we all have a void to be filled by Jesus as Savior is universal for all and for all time. That settled I would like to introduce the "next in line" participant to "complete" what is missing in most women's lives. A God fearing, Unconditionally Loving Man. I believe that most women today suffer oppression in the everyday things of life because most men don't know how to express Unconditional Love to their wives, and more so to woman, married and unmarried alike. Somewhere along the line of time and tradition men became less Godly and that made them less manly. Because the man is the head of woman in the line of succession, and Christ the Head of man, our relationship in Love to our wives and other women are in direct alignment with where men are with Christ as their Head. Simply put: close to the heart of Christ, close to the heart of wife/woman. Men who have experienced (in a real sense) the Unconditional Love of God through Jesus Christ, can then pass it down in the treatment of woman/wife. When a man shows a woman Unconditional Love she is twice completed. Once by Christ who fills that which is lacked, an secondly by the Unconditional Love of God in man from whence she was taken at creation. She was made our help meet by God by completing "what we are not" adding the more tender effeminate personality to our nature. I believe no one, and especially no man, can be loving and kind of himself, thereby "the Love of God is shed in our hearts by the Holy Ghost" as a guide to, and instructor in Unconditional Love. My story is thus so. I always loved (notice small l in the word loved) my wife from day one. The kind of love that showed care, provision, concern, and kindness. We have always had a very good relationship. Then at the age of 31 Christ became my Savior and I started to learn how shallow my love was. I would continually pray to be filled with His Spirit and to teach me to Love as He Loves. He is faithful and He did. This happened in several supernatural ways. First was a dream where I was taken into heaven for the whole night and sat before Christ as He instructed me on Unconditional Love. Second time was a vision wherein His very presence radiated so much Love that I had to collapse before Him and worship Him. I speak this not as some sort of show of godliness or self adulation but only to point out what degree God will go to show and give us Unconditional Love. If all women were treated by men with the preciousness that God designed them to have they wouldn't have to add other things to make them fill fulfilled. That doesn't mean that women can't have jobs or any interests but it does mean that they won't have to fill the thing that completes them with distractions. Men, Godly men, Unconditionally Loving men, will add the missing piece to the lives of women, if they are so inclined to be married. Then having received that from man and adding their own personal experiences with Unconditional Love through Christ, life will be good indeed. Just a short but not complete representation of the subject. Of course Godly women, without men are complete in Christ and His Unconditional Love.